A WISE MAN'S HAPPINESS
It is a kind of epiphany that how life is built up by the conflicts and consequences of 'happiness' and 'sorrow'.Yet there are many things which involve in the process of being calm no matter what situation our life is facing. There is this particular question a man has always asked himself out of curiosity or out of pain or for some random chaos running in his mind and that question is " what makes a real wise man happy , calm or good ?"
Perhaps, every principle of life has a different and individual frame of perspective through which sometimes a man sees two same things differently. Well it has a reasonable cause why it happens, so as the perspective works in its own way. And this is what has been making some things way more complicated than they are. Well it is a function of human mind and thoughts to ask for every single possibility for what it has found no true answer. Such are some things for example being good, calm and wise.
Almost every religion has told us to be wise but what makes a man wise? In fact what does 'wise' exactly means? For instance if you ask a wise man what is it like to be wise, he will tell no to the war between two nations even if it has all reasons to happen. There's a glimpse of being wise. Its a kind of strategic principle to be played for the win of both the parties, resulting into almost no consequences. And that's what little bit alike when we apply same for our 2 quarreling thoughts because it will cause no certain outcome and no consequence. It's like what Buddha said," Sometimes letting a rope go is better than the cure of the injuries caused by holding it tight". This is one perspective and there are many to see through. But all it has got is one meaning and that's hard to express in a set of words.
A wise may have an ascetic way of living life or just a normal, but it is his action that makes him reflect his happiness and to be called as a happy wise man. Thinking as a realistic nothing special is needed for a wise man to be happy. Because he had simply developed so far a beautiful way of thinking that he sees even simple things uniquely and he thus doesn't need any reason to be happy.An unending thirst of acquiring wisdom is his only quest to keep his life running and it is his natural instinct. He will get it only by thinking, imagining or simply analyzing things in his mind if he has never been provided any materialistic thing to learn. All if said in few words is that a wise man reduces his needs and wishes to be happy. Same as the let it go principle.
received high marks for wisdom: “Well, on the surface, this seems like an easy problem. On average, marriage for 15-year-old girls is not a good thing. But there are situations where the average case does not fit. Perhaps in this instance, special life circumstances are involved, such that the girl has a terminal illness. Or the girl has just lost her parents And also, this girl may live in another culture or historical period. Perhaps she was raised with a value system different from ours. In addition, one has to think about adequate ways of talking with the girl and to consider her emotional state.”
Another human instinct is to be happy to get something good totally without any cost. And wise man has always prepared himself to let go , thereby giving people what they want most of the times and that too without any expectation of return. This is one of the defining thing for the concept of being good to others. People call them good because they share their wisdom which is worthy and applicable to every of the humanly problems of which most are related to emotional distraction or turmoil about the future worries.
Such an equanimity and such a perception makes a wise man happy when he achieves it. To think critically, the wise man only survives with all happiness by letting it all go what he thinks is not necessary to carry along.
Almost every religion has told us to be wise but what makes a man wise? In fact what does 'wise' exactly means? For instance if you ask a wise man what is it like to be wise, he will tell no to the war between two nations even if it has all reasons to happen. There's a glimpse of being wise. Its a kind of strategic principle to be played for the win of both the parties, resulting into almost no consequences. And that's what little bit alike when we apply same for our 2 quarreling thoughts because it will cause no certain outcome and no consequence. It's like what Buddha said," Sometimes letting a rope go is better than the cure of the injuries caused by holding it tight". This is one perspective and there are many to see through. But all it has got is one meaning and that's hard to express in a set of words.
Letting go doesn’t mean that wise people are self-sacrificing. In Give and Take, I report evidence that well-being and success both suffer if we’re too focused on others or on ourselves. It’s neither healthy nor productive to be extremely altruistic or extremely selfish. People who fail to secure their oxygen masks before assisting others end up running out of air, and those who pursue personal gains as the expense of others end up destroying their relationships and reputations. Wise people reject the assumption that the world is a win-lose, zero-sum place. They find ways to benefit others that also advance their own objectives.
A man is always a captive of things he did not admit.It is by his virtue of being trapped in chaotic emotions and leading it into the dark feelings, that he baffles through the dales of unknowing quest in his mind and mostly ending in the unwise situations. There he needs a certain perception and a set of good thoughts to conquer his happiness back. How we see things is the real quest for hunting down our most quarreling and turmoil thoughts. This perception is so called a gift of wise man to be happy.A wise may have an ascetic way of living life or just a normal, but it is his action that makes him reflect his happiness and to be called as a happy wise man. Thinking as a realistic nothing special is needed for a wise man to be happy. Because he had simply developed so far a beautiful way of thinking that he sees even simple things uniquely and he thus doesn't need any reason to be happy.An unending thirst of acquiring wisdom is his only quest to keep his life running and it is his natural instinct. He will get it only by thinking, imagining or simply analyzing things in his mind if he has never been provided any materialistic thing to learn. All if said in few words is that a wise man reduces his needs and wishes to be happy. Same as the let it go principle.
Imagine meeting a 15-year-old girl who plans to get married next week. What would you tell her?
Here’s a response that scored low in wisdom: “A 15-year-old girl wants to get married? No, no way, marrying at age 15 would be utterly wrong. One has to tell the girl that marriage is not possible. (After further probing) It would be irresponsible to support such an idea. No, this is just a crazy idea.”
In contrast, wise people embraced nuance and multiple perspectives. Consider one answer that
Wise people specialize in what strategy expert Roger Martin calls integrative thinking—“the capacity to hold two diametrically opposing ideas in their heads”—and reconcile them for the situation at hand. In the words of the philosopher Bertrand Russell, “fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.”
Furthermore it is a legit fact that emotions and feelings can be controlled and guided to flow in the respective direction. Result is a calm mind. 'Calm' has a simple meaning in one of the perspectives -" Getting not affected by anything". It is literally achievable through thinking process asking it to let go. Also there is this denouement that there is a beautiful art to get exact and positively creative things through the chaos of our emotional plays. A wise man is a master of this art and he never stops to learn things from even an emotional destruction looking it as a huge source of wisdom. They give a value to understanding than a judgement.Another human instinct is to be happy to get something good totally without any cost. And wise man has always prepared himself to let go , thereby giving people what they want most of the times and that too without any expectation of return. This is one of the defining thing for the concept of being good to others. People call them good because they share their wisdom which is worthy and applicable to every of the humanly problems of which most are related to emotional distraction or turmoil about the future worries.
Such an equanimity and such a perception makes a wise man happy when he achieves it. To think critically, the wise man only survives with all happiness by letting it all go what he thinks is not necessary to carry along.
Li
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